Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Never Push too Far

Have u pushed people too far? If there is any, who have u pushed? It is often in our lives that we become very demanding and expecting a lot from others without considering others feelings. Sometimes we push people too far until we never know where we have pushed them or will they push back ?

There are 2 ways where u can push people

First Way- Out of our lives
Mostly we expect a lot from people who are dearest to us without realizing that sometimes we have gone too far. At the end those people who love us dearly will never push back but we will push them out from our lives because they can't stand it anymore yet they don't want to hurt us and themselves.

Second Way- Back to U
Never push someone too far that they will push u back. These people are not compassionate towards others and if u push them too far they will push back. They won't keep quiet and they never hesitate to push back. When it comes back to u then only u will realize that u have gone too far but it is too late to pull back .

Different people have different limit that can be pushed. Some people is very sensitive that even when u nudge them they will feel u have pushed too far, while others are a bit tolerant and resistant. Understanding those who are around us is very important so that u know how far u can push them.

At the end of the day maybe we should ask ourselves why those people who we love choose to leave us and why others keep pushing us? Is it because we are the one who push them first at the very beginning?

1 comment:

  1. Maybe I personally is more type #1. If someone pushes me, I will push him/ her back. But when I know they won't, let's say, admit that I am righter than him/ her, I will get out of his/ her life.

    P.S: Ring any bells? :)

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