Friday, May 28, 2010
Saturday, May 8, 2010
How Great is a Mother
Today is Mother's day and i want to write about how hard it is to be a mother.
My mom is a great mom, she wakes up at 5 am in the morning to clean whole house except my room, go to market, prepare breakfast and off to work. At4-5 pm she comes home from work and start to cook for dinner, after dinner she needs to wash all the dishes, taking care of all laundries at the end she climbs to bed at 9 pm. Everyday she will do the same things.
While for me, last few months i got 5 am-5pm shifts for a week and it felts like i was dying in the process. I was not a morning person at that time so it's very dreadful for me to wake up at 4 am in the morning then i never cook breakfast my breakfast was just stale bread with Nutella. In addition i don't need to clean my rooms. At 5 am i start and when i was working i felt like i'm a zombie because my mind and my spirit was not there. At 3/4pm i went home and i need to resist the temptation to sleep or else i can't sleep at night and it was just terrible since u feel sleepy and tired. At 5 pm i cook a super simple dinner or sometimes i dined out because i was too tired too cook.Lastly at 7 pm i HAVE TO climb up to my bed or else i'll get cranky. Those whole weeks it just so dreadful for me and i started to think how on earth my mother do those things . I even only did those routines for like a week and i didn't need to clean the house, do laundry, or cook a real dishes like my mom, but i still feel terribly exhausted after that weeks. I felt like i was a living dead at that moment.
What was funny bout this is i always complaining why my mom always feel exhausted but now i completely understand. I can't imagine that one day when i become a mother i'll tell my children that dinner would have to wait until tommorrow night just because i feel really sleepy and i need to go bed at 7 pm every evening hahahaha . That just absurd!!!
From that moment, I realize that for 22 years of my life she had sacrified more than enough. Living like her in those routines is terribly boring and exhausting but she still manage it until today . I am very grateful to her and i know that she is a great mother. Some mothers might not do something like my mother do ,but just believe me that every mother want the best for their children and they have their own way to give their best.
This is just a simple example of sacrifice that certain mother had made. Some mother would rather have her son or daughter resent her so that her son or daughter will not make a mistake that can ruin his or her life. Some mothers would rather leave their children because they think that they are children will be better off without them. You should watch Desperate Housewives to see that how far certain mother will go to protect their children. There is no one in this world truly loves u like your mother so loves her back like no one will love her except their children !
So readers if u ever think that your mother doesn't love u enough i give u a simple solution. U can try to follow her routines, try to play her role and u'll understand that she loves u more than enough.
My mom is a great mom, she wakes up at 5 am in the morning to clean whole house except my room, go to market, prepare breakfast and off to work. At4-5 pm she comes home from work and start to cook for dinner, after dinner she needs to wash all the dishes, taking care of all laundries at the end she climbs to bed at 9 pm. Everyday she will do the same things.
While for me, last few months i got 5 am-5pm shifts for a week and it felts like i was dying in the process. I was not a morning person at that time so it's very dreadful for me to wake up at 4 am in the morning then i never cook breakfast my breakfast was just stale bread with Nutella. In addition i don't need to clean my rooms. At 5 am i start and when i was working i felt like i'm a zombie because my mind and my spirit was not there. At 3/4pm i went home and i need to resist the temptation to sleep or else i can't sleep at night and it was just terrible since u feel sleepy and tired. At 5 pm i cook a super simple dinner or sometimes i dined out because i was too tired too cook.Lastly at 7 pm i HAVE TO climb up to my bed or else i'll get cranky. Those whole weeks it just so dreadful for me and i started to think how on earth my mother do those things . I even only did those routines for like a week and i didn't need to clean the house, do laundry, or cook a real dishes like my mom, but i still feel terribly exhausted after that weeks. I felt like i was a living dead at that moment.
What was funny bout this is i always complaining why my mom always feel exhausted but now i completely understand. I can't imagine that one day when i become a mother i'll tell my children that dinner would have to wait until tommorrow night just because i feel really sleepy and i need to go bed at 7 pm every evening hahahaha . That just absurd!!!
From that moment, I realize that for 22 years of my life she had sacrified more than enough. Living like her in those routines is terribly boring and exhausting but she still manage it until today . I am very grateful to her and i know that she is a great mother. Some mothers might not do something like my mother do ,but just believe me that every mother want the best for their children and they have their own way to give their best.
This is just a simple example of sacrifice that certain mother had made. Some mother would rather have her son or daughter resent her so that her son or daughter will not make a mistake that can ruin his or her life. Some mothers would rather leave their children because they think that they are children will be better off without them. You should watch Desperate Housewives to see that how far certain mother will go to protect their children. There is no one in this world truly loves u like your mother so loves her back like no one will love her except their children !
So readers if u ever think that your mother doesn't love u enough i give u a simple solution. U can try to follow her routines, try to play her role and u'll understand that she loves u more than enough.
Vampire Fiction Review
I feel terribly bored and i don't know what i want to write. Let just sing a song or should i tell u a story. I think it's better i tell u about few stories. Recently i read few novels about vampire fictions but not twilight saga. I really like Blue blood, Vampire academy, and True blood. These vampires novels are more appealing than twilight saga.
1. Vampire Academy
I like the part where Rose is asking the reader bout the differentiation of love letter and a dead threat. In the fifth novel the main protagonist has turned into a villain and force the heroine to join him. However the heroine decide not to join him instead she kill him because she knew that the guy that once she loved would rather die than became a villain. However she didn't drive the stake deep enough thus the villain teach her not too look back unless u really see that your enemy had died. Starting from that moment onwards the villain start to send her letters that mentioning how much he loves her and how long he waits to kill her. HAHAHAHA what an irony, i don't know the different either between a love letter and a dead threat.
Other part that I like about this novel is the shadowkiss concept and the relationship between the heroine and her friend Vasilisa Dragomir. In this story Vasilisa Dragomir who is the heroine best friend has an ability to heal people and resurrect people from death. However, in that process vasilisa will become mentally and physically weak. In the story, it is told that Vasilisa once brought the heroine back from death and therefore the heroine become her shadow kiss meaning that all shadow or mental weakness that results from Vasilisa healing ability will be shared together with the heroine. Thus in the books it is mentioned that Rose and Vasilisa is bounded in a way that rose can sense her friend emotion and rose is easily getting agitated because her aura is covered by shadow.
2. Blue blood
I like the story of the main heroine, Jack, Madeline, and Kingsley Martin
Madeline and Jack are vampires who are bounded together. They are soul mate, but turns out Jack fall for the main heroine and Madeline fall for Kingsley Martin. However Madeline decide to choose Jack because it' s her duty since in this story if she is bonded with jack she can restore her memory and get back her power to eleminate the villain. However, since jack didn't keep his promise to renew his bond with madeline, Madeline was upset because if she knows that jack will not keep his promise she will ran away with Kingsley. However, it's too late. Kingsley is trapped in hell and Madeline will never forgive Jack and the main heroine for what they did to her and Kingsley. I can't wait the story of Madeline and Jack Force but this is the best part that i really like about this novel. Turns out that Madeline might join the villain to get back to the heroine and Jack? In addition this vampire storys evolve from the moment Lucifer fell from heaven and from archaengel story thus it is quite interesting to learn bout types of angels.
3 True Blood
Eric Northman is the best part of this novel full stopHAHAHAHAHA
I really like the romance between Sookie and Eric. The main heroine fall for vampire Bill at first but it turns out that in the next few series Sookie likes Bill's boss better. In every series there will be a mystery that sookie need to solve and it is very interesting to find who the villain is in every series.
1. Vampire Academy
I like the part where Rose is asking the reader bout the differentiation of love letter and a dead threat. In the fifth novel the main protagonist has turned into a villain and force the heroine to join him. However the heroine decide not to join him instead she kill him because she knew that the guy that once she loved would rather die than became a villain. However she didn't drive the stake deep enough thus the villain teach her not too look back unless u really see that your enemy had died. Starting from that moment onwards the villain start to send her letters that mentioning how much he loves her and how long he waits to kill her. HAHAHAHA what an irony, i don't know the different either between a love letter and a dead threat.
Other part that I like about this novel is the shadowkiss concept and the relationship between the heroine and her friend Vasilisa Dragomir. In this story Vasilisa Dragomir who is the heroine best friend has an ability to heal people and resurrect people from death. However, in that process vasilisa will become mentally and physically weak. In the story, it is told that Vasilisa once brought the heroine back from death and therefore the heroine become her shadow kiss meaning that all shadow or mental weakness that results from Vasilisa healing ability will be shared together with the heroine. Thus in the books it is mentioned that Rose and Vasilisa is bounded in a way that rose can sense her friend emotion and rose is easily getting agitated because her aura is covered by shadow.
2. Blue blood
I like the story of the main heroine, Jack, Madeline, and Kingsley Martin
Madeline and Jack are vampires who are bounded together. They are soul mate, but turns out Jack fall for the main heroine and Madeline fall for Kingsley Martin. However Madeline decide to choose Jack because it' s her duty since in this story if she is bonded with jack she can restore her memory and get back her power to eleminate the villain. However, since jack didn't keep his promise to renew his bond with madeline, Madeline was upset because if she knows that jack will not keep his promise she will ran away with Kingsley. However, it's too late. Kingsley is trapped in hell and Madeline will never forgive Jack and the main heroine for what they did to her and Kingsley. I can't wait the story of Madeline and Jack Force but this is the best part that i really like about this novel. Turns out that Madeline might join the villain to get back to the heroine and Jack? In addition this vampire storys evolve from the moment Lucifer fell from heaven and from archaengel story thus it is quite interesting to learn bout types of angels.
3 True Blood
Eric Northman is the best part of this novel full stopHAHAHAHAHA
I really like the romance between Sookie and Eric. The main heroine fall for vampire Bill at first but it turns out that in the next few series Sookie likes Bill's boss better. In every series there will be a mystery that sookie need to solve and it is very interesting to find who the villain is in every series.
Analogy of house and life
Our lives is like a house, especially when u are comparing someone's life with your life. Have u ever heard the saying that the grass in our neighbour's yard is always greener than ours ? I start to realize that the grass in our neighbour's front yard might be greener, but is their bedroom, kitchen, and living rooms are better than ours? The answer is, you will never know until u step into their lives or their house. U see that your friends might be smarter, richer, prettier or more success than u but when u start to enter their life, u'll find other sides that will make u grateful with your current life. So whenever u see that your neighbour's grass is greener u can start to think that it's merely grass in their front yard, u might not like the skeleton that they hide in the closet.
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